I Should Have Done this Yesterday: The Art of Procrastination

“I am going to start my workout tomorrow.  I really am.”  OR… “I think I will call grandma later.  Today is just too busy.”  How about… “I still have plenty of time to do my taxes.  It can wait until next week.”

It is estimated that 15 – 20 % of the general population are true procrastinators.  I think that number is way to low.  Why?

Because for one thing I don’t think people want to admit they put things off.  Another is… have you ever planned a vacation and known that there was a huge list of things that needed to be done before you left?

It all gets done, right?  Sure you work like a maniac for 24 hours but you always leave saying, “I got more done in one day than I have in the past month.”

ProcrastinatingDon’t even try and tell me this has not happened to you.

What people don’t seem to realize is that there is much more going on emotionally and psychologically.  If the problem becomes chronic… one can suffer at their job, not to mention severely jeopardizing their own self worth, health and wellness.

Researchers argue as to whether this is a genetic or a personality trait.  Either way, if you suffer from even a periodic episode of procrastination it can be harmful.

One of the most common areas people suffer from procrastination is with fitness.  These people may be highly motivated in their careers or at home with their families but the effort to take care of one’s self often gets put off.

One assistant professor at Brown University says that procrastination is a matter of self-regulation.  He says certain people simply cannot regulate their behavior.

Dr. Piers Steel, a researcher from the University of Calgary who is publishing a book on the subject next year, recently sent out a press release stating “procrastinators are less confident, and have lower expectations that they can finish the task at hand”.

He concludes that the expectancy and the confidence a person has on completing the task is related to the desire and the immediacy of finishing the task in a timely matter.

Steel also states all delays are not considered procrastination.  A person has to believe it is better to start something and then continues to sit on his/her hands rather than beginning to be considered a procrastinator.

A fitness professional deals with this daily.  A client walks in who is 40 lbs over weight.  The client knows he/she needs to start a program but chooses not to begin.  This is the definition of a procrastinator.

This, however, is a double-edged sword.  In the case of trying to lose weight, it not only can have ill effects on your body.  It can also contribute to side effects such as fear of failure and embarrassment.

The general public procrastinates because they see the cost of doing the tasks not equal to the benefit of putting it off.  They believe that extra episode of Seinfeld is going to bring them more satisfaction.

Sometimes willpower can play a role in the short term but as soon as something distressing comes up and gets in the way…exercise and diet go right out the window.

So enough with the reasons and the bad vibes of procrastination.  Here is a list of things you can do to fight the urge of giving into not getting things finished or worse yet…. Not starting things.

No matter how simple the list below may seem, if you are currently putting things off, you are not following through with the easiest of things to do about it.

  • Develop a plan for with a clear and precise picture of what you want to focus on.
  • Make a conscious effort to change your limiting belief.
  • Break the task down into smaller more manageable chunks so it isn’t overwhelming.
  • Then keep a log of the progress and write everything down.
  • Give rewards after each small step is completed.
  • Tell everyone you know you are starting the project and that you would like their support.
  • Restructure your habits so you are less likely to skip or be tempted to skip doing the task.
  • Avoid people who will provide excuses or reasons for you to not accomplish your goal.

As a trainer, I frequently have to help encourage clients through these simple strategies.  If you struggle with going to the gym, here is a very easy way to make going to the gym a realistic habit and in turn lose 10 lbs in the next 4 – 6 weeks.

Find a time frame that works for you in your day.  If you know you let things get away from you, do it first thing in the morning.  Then find a class that works for your goal and grab a buddy who wants to do this with you.  Next make a commitment for the next 6 weeks to attend the class 3-4 times a week.  Your buddy can’t miss either.  Tell everyone around you that you are busy during that time.

Finally, figure out something like a new pair of jeans or a great new MP3 player you have had your eye on as a reward for attending every single class and achieving your goal.

Now you have taken the first steps to eliminating procrastination and 10 lbs from your life forever.  Write me at bobby@resultsonly.com with your results when you are done.

What happens when you surround yourself with great people?

I am flying home from a boot camp. Not the kind where you get your butt kicked for 20 hours a day. Well I did kind of have that experience but not completely. You see there are times when a trainer really gets to feel like he or she is making a difference.

When you are part of the top 1% of your industry you really need to raise the bar when you come home from a weekend like mine. I have been surrounded by peers and friends who are at the top of their game. They come to me for advice and I go to them for ideas and brainstorming. Together we all win and instill new ways to touch as many lives as possible.

This boot camp was an opportunity to work side by side with my peers developing new programming, creating new training techniques, and learn about new marketing and joint venture opportunities to truly make a difference in other people’s lives. Many of the big names in fitness are also well paid professionals. They are men and women, like me, who command top dollar for their time and training.

However the reason these people are so successful has nothing to do with how much they earn or how many zeros are included in their bank accounts bottom line. It is the transparency, loyalty, and passion they have for their clients and customers that enable them to succeed.

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What Inspired Greg Norman’s Incredible Play At The British Open?

Greg Norman has always been a powerful presence on the golf course. However many of you who are on my list may know him more for his wine than golf because he has been away from the game for such a long time.

This past weekend “the Shark” (for those of you who didn’t know it) struck again at age 53. Tiger Woods has been sidelined with a knee injury and the PGA Tour was frazzled that viewership would be down during his absence. The golf gods answered in spades giving an aging (in golf terms only) professional a chance to make history.

Greg did not fulfill the dream many wanted. He did not fall part by any means, however he was forced to succumb to the golf course’s weather, winds, and treachery on the final day of competition.

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Updates From The Wedding And A New Video To Check Out.

So I have been patiently waiting for a family member to send out pictures from my sister’s wedding to add into the blog.  No pictures yet.

Not to mention that taking a few days off wreaks havoc on the entrepreneur gym owner.

 

I am back in the saddle again after a short week. 

The Phoenicians have made their mass exodus from town in an attempt to get away from the heat.

It really is not so bad. 

 

I find the nights particularly interesting because we go through what is called “monsoon season”. 

Now don’t think south pacific but think about an hour or two of high winds followed by an intense 15 minutes of rain. 

It really is a site to see and can take the edge off even the crankiest of people.

 

I love to open the gym doors and crank the music and settle in for the storm.

Rain is something you miss when you move to Phoenix which is why I looked insane at my sisters wedding when I refused to come in from the reception because it was pouring.

 

Anyway back to Annapolis… how many people can say that they had a FIRE at their reception?  Once again, would have been nice to have pictures but oh well.

I only mention this because I have gotten at least 2 dozen inquiries from people who read the newsletter asking about the trip.

 

It is nice to know not only that you read my info but that you genuinely care about my family.

I will show some in the future.  All turned out fine but it made for interesting chatter during the reception.

 

So what do I have for you today??  Might want to give youtube a chance to load it so the video doesn’t stutter.  Press play once and then pause so the video can stay ahead of you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Well I am posting a temporary video clip of what I will put on my home page.  You see I have been spending a lot of time redoing things that just didn’t get right the first time.

The home page has been high on my list. 

To explain… I never knew exactly what to say for a video testimonial. 

Believe me, loss for words is not something people use to describe me but the fact was I am who I coach and teach.

 

That is who you need to see to know exactly what I do.  So here you have it.  My first video for 7th St. 

I will continue to tweak it, get the timing a little better, and add an intro from me but the bottom line is it has a good feel for what I do.

 

Please let me know what you think.  Love it or hate it is not important.  Never mind I have spent more than a few hours on it. 

Write to me and tell me your thoughts.

 

Thanks

 

Bobby