Negative People Stink and So Do their Lame Excuses

The only thing I think people should regularly lose in life is body fat.

You want to lose fat, right? You want to win that battle, right? Those that WANT to win never settle and nothing less will do.

I get tons of emails from readers each week and you know what I hear the most? EXCUSES about why they can’t do this and haven’t succeeded at that.

Hey, I know there are people out there who have serious problems. But they are not the people I am referring to. I’m talking about the “I cant’s” or “I don’ts” or “I will never be able to’s”.

I know you don’t normally say these things because you are disciplined and you know what it takes to make a difference in your life. But unfortunately, these excuses hold some people back from getting healthier.

We all know these people. Sometimes even we can have a bad day and slip into a tough frame of mind. Take a look at some of the excuses I hear and learn the answers.

Maybe reading them will stick with you. If you ever have a bad day, it will be easier to get out of that bad space. If you think you might give into an urge to blow off a workout you will think twice. If you are sitting at a friendly or business luncheon and hear one of these, you might be able to steer the naysayer in a different direction. It definitely helps to be armed with good answers.

Excuse #1: “I Don’t have the Time To Eat Right”

Everyone’s busy these days. Some people make eating right a priority. Others don’t and complain about not having enough time to cook healthy meals or prepare healthy snacks.

Do you want it or don’t you?

It takes discipline, organization, and scheduling to prepare your meals and snacks the day before. You need to cook in larger quantities, for a whole week and then refrigerate or freeze the extra to eat at later meals throughout the week. By doing this, you end up spending less time cooking and more time enjoying delicious healthy foods. You will actually find more time in your day than you ever thought. To help you stave hunger in between meals, make sure to carry healthy snacks with you. Keep some at the office. Keep some in your car … Make it easy on yourself so you’re not stuck in a hunger panic at the nearest fast food restaurant.

Excuse #2: “I Hate Exercise/Diets/Water, etc.”

Really? Would you rather be 40 pounds overweight, have no energy, and be a walking zombie? Decide what you hate MORE and then make sure you can live with the answer.

Excuse #3: “I Have No Time to Exercise”

Are you kidding? If you can’t find 15-30 minutes two to three times a week… your schedule stinks. That’s less than 1 hour per week out of 168 hours! If you are overweight, are you even a little bit serious about making positive changes? If your fitness and poor eating habits become a serious issue, I won’t be the one telling you that there needs to be a change. A surgeon will.

Excuse #4: “Healthy Food Is Expensive”

Yes, this one might have a little merit. However, you must realize where your grocery money goes… CRAP. Eat less from a box or a can and more from what comes out of the ground.

If you start eating more nutrient-rich foods, you will need to eat less…which means you will buy less!

Excuse #5: “I Eat Out All The Time”

You can eat out and find healthy substitutes. It’s all about choices. But don’t let eating out become an every day event either or you’ll look like you eat out every day.

Just look around a restaurant. Do you want to look like you just ate the “Grand Slam” breakfast, at the “All You Can Eat” buffet or like, “Boy, I need some Pepto-Bismol??”

MY FAVORITE Excuse: “I’ve Tried Everything…Nothing Works For Me”

Have you ever stuck to a program for 1 solid year? How about 6 months? 12 weeks?

If you did, you would definitely see results and feel better. Often times, people try something for a few weeks, get bored and don’t give the program a fighting chance to see if it really could work for them.

This is where most people end up after trying a fad diet or a workout cut out from some magazine instead of a system that works like the ones we promote art Results Only.

Integrate some of the programming from the newsletters. Read the motivational tips every Monday and put it all together into your daily lifestyle. Next thing you know, positive changes have occurred and you are better for it.

So are excuses like these holding YOU or someone you love back? If so, ask yourself what you are going to do about them right now? What kind of person are you? If you could conquer anything, who would you want to be?

You know the answer. Now do something about it.

Everything You Need To Know In Choosing A Gym

If you prefer to workout at home, make the best of any place available. If you have the choice of a room, make sure it is at least 10’ x 10’, well-ventilated and has enough height and width to move comfortably. It is also important to know that the floor can handle the stress of any impact that may occur and that the floor is properly protected in areas where weights may drop or clubs may impact.

If you have a small budget, I suggest the following equipment:

  • Stability ball
  • Dumbbells from 5– 25 lbs.
  • Mirror big enough to see a full body move
  • Tubing

A larger budget can also include:

  • A piece of cardiovascular equipment (treadmill, bike, elliptical)
  • Weight bench or step bench
  • Abs mat
  • Dumbbells 30 –50 lbs.

If you prefer to workout at a gym, here are some factors to consider when choosing which gym to join:

First, decide what features are important to you.

  • Do you need the comforts of bells and whistles like pools, saunas, spas, nutrition bars, child care and other upscale amenities?
  • Is the gym close enough to your home or office? If you have to drive far out of your way to workout, there is a high likelihood of skipping it when you lack motivation.
  • What are the business hours? If you are a morning or night person, make sure that the facility is open during the hours you need.
  • Next, ask friends and family where they exercise. Odds are they like the facility and can tell you the pros and cons. They can also tell you about current promotions.
  • Visit the facility. Take advantage of free trial memberships. If there are a few gyms in the running try all the free trial memberships in a row. 4 gyms that offer 1 week trial memberships = 1 month of free exercise.

During your visits, take note of the following:

  • Is there an initiation fee?
  • What are the membership dues for the gym?
  • What is the age of the facility?
  • How clean is the facility, especially the weight room, locker room and showers?
  • Is the equipment worn or new?
  • Who are the typical clients that frequent the gym?
  • Is there music in the background? If so, is it too loud or not the type you like?
  • What hours is the facility crowded? What hours is it quiet?
  • Are there certified personnel available if you have questions?
  • What is the overall attitude in the gym?

It should be easy to make the right decision for your needs after you have assessed these factors. If you ask the right questions, the choice for a place to train is right at your finger tips.

Gardening Does Not Count As Aerobic Exercise!

I am a member of the American Counsel on Exercise and recently I have helped a few people get their personal training certifications through this great organization.

I know daily aerobic activity is a must and I understand that for a larger portion of the population getting off the couch is something that takes effort.

Therefore, when I read a section in the manual on aerobic activity that gardening for 20 minutes burns X amount of calories it kind of got me revved up a little.  My grandmother gardens every day in the spring, summer and fall.  A little trimming here and watering there.  She is in her 80’s and I understand that an hour of that may be just what she needs to get the blood flowing.

BUT C’MON… if you are in your twenties, thirties, forties, and even fifties and sixties gardening should not be a form of exercise for the day.

Don’t get me wrong.  As I write this article, I can hear crews of landscapers outside my window.  They are climbing trees, mowing grass, lifting, pulling, heaving and working hard.  That is exercise.

Getting out a flowered knee pad cushion and pruning the azaleas is not exercise.

This brings me to the topic at hand.  ADDING A LITTLE PLAY TIME TO YOUR LIFE.

Occasionally, I am asked by my clients if they can reschedule an appointment or choose a different time of day for their group training because they need to be a sub for their doubles tennis team or they have a golf outing.

My first questions are always:

If you are going to reschedule, 1) Will you still get in a workout today? AND 2) If you can’t fit in a workout, will you make the activity worth your while?

Let me explain.

Regular aerobic activity should be included in everyone’s daily routine to strengthen the heart and lungs and make them work more efficiently.

Activities like running, walking, stair climbing, swimming, or any number of other activities can get the heart working harder for a continuous period of time. We won’t get into intensity here as I have written about it before.  But remember I asked “Will you make the activity worth your while?”

The benefits you get from aerobic activity are numerous, and people of all ages should engage in regular exercise.  Even if there are health conditions present, regular aerobic activity can be tailored to fit the individual’s needs as long as you are evaluated by your doctor or a health care provider first.

It’s good to start out slow and gradually increase aerobic activity as tolerated because any amount of aerobic activity is better than nothing.  But you need to get moving and make it worth your while.

Now back at the ranch I have to deal with the substitution.  If you are going to get in a training session with me or by yourself, I don’t care how you play tennis, when you go golfing or make it to that business meeting.

However if you need to skip the workout entirely, then that should be one heck of a doubles tennis match.  You better go for every serve, make every point count and run like the wind for every ball.  You see, I understand that tennis can be social and I even admire everyone who uses it as an activity to get together with friends.  But all too often I have seen 2-3 point volleys and then the point is done.  I even watched a match once that didn’t have any points other than the serve.

I don’t want to pick on tennis only.  So let’s go at the golf outing.

You skip your workout and then you go have a few drinks on the front nine, then a huge and fattening lunch at the turn with a few more drinks on the back nine all while riding in a cart.

First of all, if you skipped your workout for this activity and blow off exercise completely, why make it worse by adding 3000 calories worth of food and liquor?

If you skip an exercise session for a golf outing, then you need to at least walk the course.  Let the cart guy drive your clubs on the course, but walk as much as possible.

Finally let’s try another group of people I deal with: The basketball leagues.  This tends to be a little more aggressive.  These guys sometimes get out of control with fouls and stuff but all too often I watch half-hearted efforts at fast breaks and rebounds.

If you are there to play… Why not really try hard?

I myself play in a lacrosse league and tend to run with guys in their twenties.  I am no longer in my twenties.  But I do try to keep up and usually do.  I run hard for every ground ball, I sprint up the field on transitions and I sub out when it is my turn because I am convinced that if I run hard for 2 – 4 minute shifts, I help the team more as opposed to half running for 8 minute shifts.

So I want you to think about joining a program that has a little level of competition.  Some place that is appropriate for your level of play in any sport and where you can be pushed when you get involved.

It gets the juices flowing and lets you remember what it was like to be a kid.  You did play outside when you were young.  Why not do it again?

Tag, you’re it.

King Of The Hill

President’s weekend has come and gone.  The long weekend was a great time to regroup and use that extra day off to get small projects done and to spend with family and friends.

For me, the past weekend included paint cans, some 2×4’s and a whole lot of patience.  I can’t wait to show you some before and after pictures of the new Results Only facility!  Sometimes pictures from the interim aren’t as impressive.  But before and after pictures definitely tell a different story.  I will share those with you ASAP.

I am also excited because I have received great news this week.  Living in Arizona, most of my clients tend to gravitate to the colder climates when they get away for the weekend.  For Presidents Day that means skiing.   This week has been one great email after another followed by smiling faces as they walk in the door for their training sessions.  Here are some of the comments I’ve received from my clients:

“Bobby, I cannot believe how strong I felt on the mountain.”

“There is no way I could have done those 5 extra runs without your help.”

“It was great to be flying down the mountain, faster, more in control and without fear of getting hurt because I knew my legs were strong.”
 
This is all because they put in the time over the past few weeks training.  Overall conditioning, not sport-specific training, is what does the trick.  While my clients have experienced the benefits to their training first-hand on the mountains, they have also found it easier to get through their daily activates, skip the elevator and climb more stairs than before, not to mention how much better they sleep.

I would like to get some feedback on the grocery checklist, and food log you are keeping.  I hope you have found out that making good decisions when it comes to nutrition is not all that hard.  I have received over three dozen emails from subscribers telling me how they have lost 3 – 5 lbs simply by tracking their food habits and using the food log and grocery list.  These results were achieved with no change in exercise routines, not even any intensity changes.  People just began to realize that food choices and portion control are every bit as important as exercise.

Let me know how you are doing.  If you haven’t started a food log, don’t worry … Start it today!

Today’s Feature Article is about adding a little playtime to your workouts.  Although it is easy to do, I think sometimes people forget to add the fun factor.  Workouts should be fun and hard, a beneficial combination for your body and your mood.

I hope everyone had a great weekend.  Hopefully the new Results Only facility will be open for business by our next newsletter.

One more thing, if you receive this email and it looks a little strange, html code is coming through or the pictures don’t seem quite right, please let us know.  We have been trying a new system and want to make sure it is going well.

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Results Only … it’s not just a name, it’s a lifestyle!

Bobby

Follow This Simple Proven Easy To Follow To Be Fit And Firm In February’s Four Weeks

Okay, okay- so I got a little carried away with my use of the letter F.  But if I got your attention, it was worth it.

February has always been a huge month for me.  Many of those who joined other facilities to get themselves in shape are trickling into my world.  They realize that full-service gyms have over booked their facilities due to the wave of new members from New Year.  This often results in a gym that is too crowded to get a good workout and clients being put on cookie cutter programs. Some have overlooked the need for saunas, steam rooms, and juice bars.

The people who have made serious commitments to themselves to get in shape this year come to me.  The others will stay a little longer at the big box gyms.  They will cut articles out of magazines and try different workouts.  They will follow blindly and therefore they will probably not get the best results.

Some will do well and succeed despite it all because they are at least increasing their activity and others will not.

For those who make the commitment and come to me, one of the first things I do is get them on a good plan.  A plan not unlike the one I will show you today.

Planning and simplicity are really the tools I have given all my clients over the years.

Making it challenging and fun has been a huge part of it too.

Here are the three simple steps you need to take right now.
First – Click HERE to download your Get Fit Tool Kit. 

It is an all-in-one PDF and it contains:

•    A Calendar for February
•    A blank Food Log Plan
•    And a Grocery List
 
Second – Take out your calendar (RIGHT NOW) and do the following:

•    Schedule one day a week to go food shopping and to cook.
•    Choose 5 workout days – 3 strength and 2 cardio.
•    Put these days in your blackberry or on the wall and make sure you CANNOT change them.

Third – Pick any smart and proven nutritional plan to follow for four weeks: 

Some people like South Beach, others like Atkins, others like Weight Watchers and some will just make better choices over the next four weeks.

The calendar will keep you focused.  Now that you have placed these workouts and shopping days in your planner, they are immovable.  You will plan around them from now on.  There will be no skipping because of a lunch meeting if you see a potential conflict.  You already have a meeting scheduled — a meeting with yourself.  Or, consider it a meeting with me at the gym.

Go to the grocery store one day a week.  Use the grocery list I just gave you with the food plan you like.  My grocery list is pretty clean.  So if you are choosing things that are not on the list, they probably should not be going in your mouth.

Finally, come home and cook and prepare your meals for the whole week.  Use the food log to help you figure out which days you will choose which meal plans.  If you cook everything ahead of time, or if you prepare the ingredients so you can come home and whip up the meal in no time, you are more likely to succeed.

I guarantee that if you spend a little time planning, and you make the cooking and shopping part fun, you will make better choices this month.  You will feel better and you will see changes without making huge sacrifices.

Besides, aren’t you glad I didn’t send this before Super Bowl weekend?  Now get planning!